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Breasts Are Complicated

Breasts Are Complicated | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
So, I was reading this post at an escorts website, and found myself laughing at these lines in the post: For women, breasts are just another part of their body but for men they are one of the most …
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Movember Is More About Protecting Masculinity Than Protecting Men

Movember Is More About Protecting Masculinity Than Protecting Men | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Remember, remember, the scourge of Movember? We’re halfway through the advocacy month that calls for men to grow the manliest mustaches they can muster to
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"As November babies and gender critics, we take Movember as a personal affront.


There’s a school of thought that says any act in service of a good cause is a good act. So why do we hate Movember? Are we grumpy contrarians and feminist killjoys who hate things precisely because other people love them? Probably, but there are deeper reasons for our Movember naysaying, too. Below, we investigate in conversation."

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"As November babies and gender critics, we take Movember as a personal affront.


There’s a school of thought that says any act in service of a good cause is a good act. So why do we hate Movember? Are we grumpy contrarians and feminist killjoys who hate things precisely because other people love them? Probably, but there are deeper reasons for our Movember naysaying, too. Below, we investigate in conversation."

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Will Uterine Transplants Make Male Pregnancy Possible?

Will Uterine Transplants Make Male Pregnancy Possible? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Denise Grady reported that American doctors expect to implant a uterus into women, and considers the implications for men who wish to carry children.
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Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy

Japan’s sexual apathy is endangering the global economy | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

A lack of interest in romantic relationships is setting off a demographic time-bomb that threatens all of us.


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What can happen when gender inequality exists

malek's comment, November 10, 2015 4:51 PM
“homogeneous Japan,” is the name for “no-immigration principle.”
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The Two Faces of Bisexual OKCupid

The Two Faces of Bisexual OKCupid | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

There are no bisexual women on OKCupid. There are thousands of bisexual women on OKCupid. If you find that contradictory, well, welcome to the paradoxical world of bisexual OKCupid


... I rarely see the gender binary discussed by gay people on OKCupid, and certainly never by straight people—even though, of course, the concepts of homosexuality and heterosexuality imply a gender binary as well. Gay people and straight people simply don’t seem to worry that their sexual orientation is inherently offensive to the people they’d like to date.

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Miley Cyrus tells Paper Magazine her gender identity and sexuality is fluid

Miley Cyrus tells Paper Magazine her gender identity and sexuality is fluid | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
"I don't relate to being boy or girl, and I don't have to have my partner relate to boy or girl."

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An Open Letter to Young Tamil Men About Female Sexuality

An Open Letter to Young Tamil Men About Female Sexuality | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
There seems to be a flawed assumption somewhere in the depths of our patriarchal culture that the ideal woman should be angelic and innocent, blushing at the mere mention of words like "sex" or "penis." Sometimes, when my anger do...

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Sex redefined

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The idea of two sexes is simplistic. Biologists now think there is a wider spectrum than that.


http://www.nature.com/news/sex-redefined-1.16943


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Bernard Ryefield's comment February 27, 2015 11:14 AM
Nature and sex redefined – we have never been binary
A recent article in Nature suggests that biologists ‘now think’ the idea of two sexes is inaccurate; in fact, says Vanessa Heggie, for decades biologists have been at the forefront of campaigns against this simplistic understanding of sex: http://www.theguardian.com/science/the-h-word/2015/feb/19/nature-sex-redefined-we-have-never-been-binary
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Feminist Sex Positions (NSFW)

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Liz Miele takes on the lack of feminist sex position jokes.

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Men And Women May Be Wired To View Cheating Differently

Men And Women May Be Wired To View Cheating Differently | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The idea that men are from Mars and women are from Venus may feel outdated or even downright sexist, but a recent study suggests that there may be some truth to that notion -- at least when it comes to the way men and women tend to view cheating.

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You Give Men A Bad Name

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We talk about pubic hair from time to time here at SK, but I think the best discussion of the subject just might be this one where Dr. Debby Herbenick (Ph.D., M.P.H.) responds to a male who not onl...
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Read for the sex ed & body image info; mock for the stupid male actions.

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Study: Gay men earn less than straight men, but lesbians are paid more

Study: Gay men earn less than straight men, but lesbians are paid more | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

Sexual orientation seems to affect earning prospects and job satisfaction, a study shows.


Research by Nick Drydakis at Anglia Ruskin University found gay men on average earn 9% less compared to heterosexual men.


However, lesbians on average earn 12% more compared to heterosexual women.


Even in countries in the EU, Australia, Canada and the US, which have the strongest anti-discrimination laws, gay and lesbian people experienced more obstacles in getting a job, earning bias and harassment than their counterparts.

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Invisible subjects: the men who fuel the demand for prostitution

Invisible subjects: the men who fuel the demand for prostitution | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

If prostitution is the oldest profession in the world, then punting is the oldest consumer activity. Yet it remains broadly unexamined, perhaps because the questions it raises are too uncomfortable.


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Male Birth Control, Without Condoms, Will Be Here by 2017

Male Birth Control, Without Condoms, Will Be Here by 2017 | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A reversible polymer that blocks sperm is about to enter human trials and will be available by 2017. How will rhetoric change when male bodies are responsible for birth control?

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Hetero Men Complain About Sexual Rejection From Women. Really?

Hetero Men Complain About Sexual Rejection From Women. Really? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Over at Eros Blog, Bacchus has an interesting discussion about a point raised in Adrienne West's post at Thought Catalog. In West's "true sex story", she writes about her discovery that men like po...

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Understanding The “What” In “What Do You Desire?”

Understanding The “What” In “What Do You Desire?” | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Examining the what in what do you desire? provides deeper understanding to the nuances of the motivation behind sex.

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If Buying Condoms Was Like Buying Birth Control

Safe sex isn’t always easy. Share on Facebook: http://on.fb.me/1vFVmq6 Like BuzzFeedVideo on Facebook: http://on.fb.me/18yCF0b Share on Twitter: http://bit.l...
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great role reversal 

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The Gender Book

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The Gender Book
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“ A gender 101 resource for anyone and everyone!
Fully illustrated and colorful resource that’s a 09-page hardback book, and available online for free or your love donation....
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What does it mean to live in a society where 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted and we have a book that eroticizes violence against women and thus renders that violence invisible?

What does it mean to live in a society where 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted and we have a book that eroticizes violence against women and thus renders that violence invisible? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
“ BBC Radio 5 Live: 50 Shades of Controversy
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Provocative thoughts

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“We thought we’d be safe”: Islan Nettles, the New Jersey 4 and the illusion of security for LGBTQ people of color

“We thought we’d be safe”: Islan Nettles, the New Jersey 4 and the illusion of security for LGBTQ people of color | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
A frightening look at what happens when LGBTQ women of color refuse to accept street harassment and other violence

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Studying The Unicorns: Hypersexual Women

Studying The Unicorns: Hypersexual Women | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The findings of a "hypersexuality and women" study were published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in June. The fact that women alone were studied could make the news all by itself, right? But bef...

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Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly

Man Tells Woman He Can't Get Turned On By Her Aging Body -- And She Reacts Perfectly | Sex Positive | Scoop.it

I asked this man who had shared my bed for three nights running why we had not made love. "Your body is too wrinkly," he said without a pause. "I have spoiled myself over the years with young woman. I just can't get excited with you. I love your energy and your laughter. I like your head and your heart. But, I just can't deal with your body."

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Breaking Age Barriers: “Sexy Has No Expiration Date” | Kinsey Confidential

Breaking Age Barriers: “Sexy Has No Expiration Date” | Kinsey Confidential | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Many companies are currently using models over the age of 50 to sell their products. Is society becoming more accepting of senior sexuality?
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Why such a scandal over a nude painting of a Cambridge academic?

Why such a scandal over a nude painting of a Cambridge academic? | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
The stir caused by Victoria Bateman's portrait raises serious questions about current attitudes to women, writes Zoe Pilger

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Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men Of Touch -

Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men Of Touch - | Sex Positive | Scoop.it
Mark Greene has one clear reason we should all fight for gay rights. Homophobic prohibitions against male touch are hurting straight men as well.
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An opinionated woman obsessed with objects, entertained by ephemera, intrigued by researching, fascinated by culture & addicted to writing. The wind says my name; doesn't put an @ in front of it, so maybe you don't notice. http://www.kitsch-slapped.com
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Crimes Against Humanity
From lone gunmen on hills to mass movements. Depressing as hell, really.
Cultural History
The roots of culture; history and pre-history.
In The Name Of God
Mainly acts done in the name of religion, but also discussions of atheism, faith, & spirituality.
Kinsanity
Let's just say I have reasons to learn more about mental health, special needs children, psychology, and the like.
Nerdy Needs
The stuff of nerdy, geeky, dreams.
Readin', 'Ritin', and (Publishing) 'Rithmetic
The meaning behind the math of the bottom line in publishing and the media. For writers, publishers, and bloggers (which are a combination of the two).
Sex Positive
Sexuality as a human right.
Visiting The Past
Travel based on grande ideas, locations, and persons of the past.
Walking On Sunshine
Stuff that makes me smile.
You Call It Obsession & Obscure; I Call It Research & Important
Links to (many of) my columns and articles.